This list is the outcome of interviews with thousands of happy people, people who are able to put a smile on their face every day. The research was done in the UK trying to find what it is that makes people happy, what happy people have in common. The results are simple and surprising. Do each of these every day and you are on your way to making yourself and those around you feel better all the time. 

1. Plant something and nurture it. Taking care of something living, something undemanding that grows and changes is a way of rewarding yourself with progress. It can be a plant or a pet, anything that you can nurture. Even a goldfish can put you back in touch with nature.

2. Count your blessings - at least five - at the end of each day. Go over all the good things that happened today, reminding yourself of all the little things can make you feel good. If you feel life is getting on top of you, write them down each night, and then look them over at the end of the week. You will surprised at how many good things happen to you. 

3. Make time to talk - have an hour-long conversation with a loved one each week.  It doesn't matter what you talk about, just make sure you get your weekly appointment with someone close. Someone you can talk about how you feel, what you want, and really listen to each other. 

4. Phone a friend you haven’t spoken to for a while and arrange to meet up. Happiness thrives on human interaction. Keep your contacts alive by regularly sending a text, or email them something interesting you saw on the Internet, or just call to say hello. Before television invaded our homes, visiting other people was the main social activity. Get into the habit of having a coffee with someone, or go shopping together, anything that reinforces your friendship.

5. Give yourself a treat every day and take the time to really enjoy it. Make sure you put a little bit of joy into every day. No matter how stressed you are, or how busy you are, you can always plan some little pleasure. Even if it is just a cup of tea while you look out of the window, or a few minutes to yourself in a busy day. You deserve a treat. 

6. Have a good laugh at least once a day. Laughter is the best medicine. Go out and have fun. Tune in to a comedy or read a few pages of a light hearted book. 

7. Get physical - exercise for half an hour three times a week. Physical exercise keeps you healthy, but also makes you happy. Go for a walk with the family after dinner, or leave the car three blocks away and walk to work, join a dance class. It is easy to put some exercise into your daily routines. 

8. Smile at and/or say hello to a stranger at least once each day. Practice smiling at people as you walk along the street - you will be surprised at how many smile back. Say hello the moment you enter a lift, you can make a new friend. Modern society has separated people, even a little encouragement can go a long way towards building social networks.

9. Cut your TV viewing by half. TV viewing is essentially solitary and prevents people from doing other things. Much of TV is good, but it can become a default behaviour and grow to dominate free time. Dare to turn it off for a night. 

10. Spread some kindness - do a good turn for someone every day. Giving other people a little pleasure means you get a good feeling too. Why not contribute a little to that feeling of community by making someone else’s day? You never know, it might be your turn tomorrow. 

Dave Mason PhD   www.hypknowsis.com

At the recent supervision training session I attended, something happened that caused me to relate a client story.  The story is that a young man phoned and requested an appointment.  Ok.

I asked him his name and he refused to give this to me. Ok.

However I told him that this was not necessary as I was a Hypnotherapist.  Ok.

We discussed hypnosis costs and time required and made the appointment.  Ok.

Now I had a young male client without name or contact but had secured an appointment.  Ok.

I turned up for the appointment and so did he.  Ok.

He filled in his intake sheet and did not want to disclose his name or contact.  That too was Ok.

I explained he could give me an alias and then I could use this name to communicate.  This too Ok

A client can give an alias without even informing me and I would be none the wiser. 

The session went well.  An hour or two later he phoned me and asked if he had left his van keys as he had lost them.  He had needed to leave the house in a hurry and normally he would have done his narna at all within earshot - wife and kiddies mainly - this time he just grunted and used his car conversion skills and drove away.  Ok.

He duly turned up for his second session.  Great.

I picked up his form and used the alias.  He gently reached over and with two big strokes crossed out the alias and wrote his real name, contact and we then started the session which went great....

This young man has on a couple of occasions called in to thank me for all I did for him and let me know where he is at.  Who me? His business is now running sweet.  He contemplated crossing the ditch, but the thought of selling up his happy home and moving his wife and family (both under five) was not that exciting. 

He was very pleased and proud of his achievements - another happy ending! 

When I related this story, some queried: Where did I source my clients?  Does it really matter?

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